Blessing or curse? Always up to you.
How long they choose to love you will never be your decision.
Choose the person you can look at and know that every single day of your life you want to see their face and that every day you can find beauty in their face, their spirit, even in the worst times. That’s what marriage is – devotion.
But I think, similar to a fear, once you look the person who hurt you so badly in the eyes, it just doesn’t seem so scary anymore.